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Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 1:17 am
by Highlander999
Reminds me of the fact that there was a kid at my school who had cerebal palsy (sp?) Basically he could barely walk, and was very hard to understand and had to get a lot of help from that staff. I'll admit I probably gave him a hard time when I was a lot younger (due to me wanting to be one of the crowd (you know how it goes)) What changed it for me was when we had the Speakers Dinner. He did the most moving presentation ever in which he described how it is living with a disability. You could have heard a pin drop in that hall. It had both women and men crying, but what made it most poiniant was the fact that he actually singled out people who had made his life easier and one of those people had been me. It had been just a small thing (I had forgotten about it) yet it had made a big impact on him. Gotta say, I haven't felt that crap in a long time, knowing that I had at times made his life harder then it already was with the popular people, yet he considered me a friend. From there on in, I made sure that I never make anyone, disabled or not, feel left out or unwanted again.

I suppose what I am trying to say in a shortened version, is that everyone has their qualities. Try and imagine this guy you mentioned, mrsniffler, as a chocolate. You and me are sitting here and our wrappers are fine. His wrapper is slightly damaged, yet both of us still have the same good chocolate inside. That is what is the impoartant thing. No matter how we appear we are the same inside.

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 1:32 am
by Tubruk
Well said Vint and Highlander. i dont think anybody could have worded Your posts Better as sporting said.

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 2:06 am
by deadhanddan
[quote=""Tubruk""]Well said Vint and Highlander. i dont think anybody could have worded Your posts Better as sporting said.[/quote] so true

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:37 am
by IndyBrit
This thread has both 1) the reason I was fishing around for a clan in the dark ages, and 2) the reason why I've stayed here ever since I found N3O

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:57 am
by deaconferal
[quote=""IndyBrit""]This thread has both 1) the reason I was fishing around for a clan in the dark ages, and 2) the reason why I've stayed here ever since I found N3O[/quote]

+1000

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 6:49 am
by GreenDude
[quote=""Highlander999""]
I only have one hate in life. Socialists!!![/quote]
Hey I take offense, I believe in Universal Healthcare, oh wait nvm. Universal Healthcare is not socialism :-P (how would I know though, I live in the US).

[quote=""joe4holly""]
Im dyslectic and when i write it pritty pointless for me to try and read. It full of mistakes and not much of it is readable. If i spell words 4+letters long 60% chance it is done wrong. For this reason i take my laptop to school just so i can spell and be able to read my work.
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Man, that sucks. I had to take speech lessons with school for 3 years because I slur my words. I managed to make it out of the lessons, but I still slur my words and so it can be frustrating when "mine" comes out like "mines" which to people say "it is mine, not the mines that blow people up". It must suck even more to be dyslectic because it make socializing so much harder. Interesting though, I never realized you were dyslectic.

[quote=""LaZy""]Bye mrs niffler. GG no RE
out[/quote]
Totally agreed. You need to grow up. I imagined you as younger than me (which is not good). BTW LaZy: Does no RE mean no Re Entry?

[quote=""yeedman""]Here , Here. I agree. why dont people post more positive threads.[/quote]
Here, Here I agree :D I want to laugh and smile, not get mad or be sa
MORE FUNNY TOPICS! 8)

EDIT: And highlander, I can see what made people cry about his situation. And you have to realize that he is even nicer because he singled out his friends, not the people who acted like jerks to them. He didn't want to embrass them, which shows a lot of compassion.

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:39 am
by deaconferal
^ No Re refers to "No Rematch" I'm pretty sure.

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 11:01 am
by NEO_CrAz3n
[quote=""KingVint""]My little brother is a special ed kid. I dislike him having to spend 6 hours to finish his 8th grade homework at night. I dislike the fact that people don't take the time to listen to him, since it takes him a long time to phrase an intelligible sentence. I dislike the fact that some kids make jokes at him because he isn't as smart as them

What I do like is the fact that he never gives up. He never complains about being slow or spending his whole evening finishing school work. As with most special ed people, he is one of the kindest, most caring people you will ever meet.

Mrsniffler, life is too short to dwell on what you don't like. Instead try to find the positive in every situation. Lastly, I give a lot of credit to 36Drew for the patience and dedication it requires to teach a class of special ed youngsters.

-Vint[/quote]

Very well said Vint!

Drew's 100% correct too.

Nice post Highlander!

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 2:50 pm
by huGGy
@Drew: That's really great. If i ever manage to come back to Canada again, i would be really thankful if you can tell me about your job there and show me around a little bit. I'm really interested in teaching and especially teaching special educations (is that how it is called in english?) in different countries. Great work buddy, keep it up!!!

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 3:04 pm
by joe4holly
[quote=""GreenDude""]

[quote=""joe4holly""]
Im dyslectic and when i write it pritty pointless for me to try and read. It full of mistakes and not much of it is readable. If i spell words 4+letters long 60% chance it is done wrong. For this reason i take my laptop to school just so i can spell and be able to read my work.
[/quote]
Man, that sucks. I had to take speech lessons with school for 3 years because I slur my words. I managed to make it out of the lessons, but I still slur my words and so it can be frustrating when "mine" comes out like "mines" which to people say "it is mine, not the mines that blow people up". It must suck even more to be dyslectic because it make socializing so much harder. Interesting though, I never realized you were dyslectic.
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Yeah I know what you mean, I cant think of any at the moment but im sure lazy will have a whole list. At the first school i went to there was only 8 people in the class all who had simler things like me and we got the help that was needed. Then i moved house and put into a 30 people class but still got the help that i needed.

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:07 pm
by 36drew
[quote=""HuggyPierre""]@Drew: That's really great. If i ever manage to come back to Canada again, i would be really thankful if you can tell me about your job there and show me around a little bit. I'm really interested in teaching and especially teaching special educations (is that how it is called in english?) in different countries. Great work buddy, keep it up!!![/quote]

For sure. :) And you are correct about the english translation.

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 11:27 pm
by Kaiser_von_Nuben
I am very impressed by the way our core values came out in the responses to this thread. I could not agree more.

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 12:19 am
by mrsniffler
i didnt mean to offend people with the word "sped"

i actually have a freind in special ed

not all special ed kids are annoying

my apologies

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 12:21 am
by GeneralMichael
Yeah nicely put on Vint and Highlander. There is a girl in my grade that I had several classes with her through out highschool who had cerebral palsy. They were mostly my english classes, which I always ended up being in the top 5 smartest kids in most of my english classes. All of the english classes that I had with her she was always was the smartest or in like the top 3. Also she was a pretty nice kid, though I did not know her very well since I do not know very many kids in any of my classes, since I spend most of my class time either listening to my teacher or rushing through my work so I can read my book. Needless to say I have very little friends and dreaded group projects.

[quote=""joe4holly""][quote=""GreenDude""]

[quote=""joe4holly""]
Im dyslectic and when i write it pritty pointless for me to try and read. It full of mistakes and not much of it is readable. If i spell words 4+letters long 60% chance it is done wrong. For this reason i take my laptop to school just so i can spell and be able to read my work.
[/quote]
Man, that sucks. I had to take speech lessons with school for 3 years because I slur my words. I managed to make it out of the lessons, but I still slur my words and so it can be frustrating when "mine" comes out like "mines" which to people say "it is mine, not the mines that blow people up". It must suck even more to be dyslectic because it make socializing so much harder. Interesting though, I never realized you were dyslectic.
[/quote]

Yeah I know what you mean, I cant think of any at the moment but im sure lazy will have a whole list. At the first school i went to there was only 8 people in the class all who had simler things like me and we got the help that was needed. Then i moved house and put into a 30 people class but still got the help that i needed.[/quote]

Hmm well unfortunately I have to join you guys in the special help class. I was sent there from I think 2nd grade to 6th grade because my voice was monatone. I hated the class, sure we got to play games but I would miss class time for other subjects like when we were being taught how to write in cursive, and then I would have to make up my work during recess. Needless to say I did not do my best work and rushed so I could play with my friends. Also one of my best friends was in that class with me because he stuttered with words that had th in them.

Re: Things i disklike

Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 12:32 am
by Tubruk
[quote=""mrsniffler""]i didnt mean to offend people with the word "sped"

i actually have a freind in special ed

not all special ed kids are annoying

my apologies[/quote]

Just in My opinion

I Think it was mostly because you singled out a special education student for following you arround and 'annoying' you. and you continue to single them out by saying not all special ed kids are annoying.
And not mainly as your use of the term 'sped'

when i know Far More People that are Healthy and Are annoying, and have more cases of being annoyed by them than any special education students, infact not in one case have i been annoyed with someone with a disabilty, tbh i respect them more than other people.

I also Believe That People suffering from any mental or Physical are 'better' people as they are greatful for what they Have even though Their Body/Mind arent equal to most other people.

and i think your apology, for the words you used is pathetic.